Individuals who have experienced abuse often focus on their own actions (or inactions) and blame themselves for their own abuse. This client information handout encourages perspective-taking and explores reasons why abusers are motivated to abuse and the obstacles they overcome in order to do so.
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Survivors of childhood sexual abuse often feel inappropriately responsible for their abuse. In 1984 the sociologist David Finkelhor published a model explaining the stages an abuser must go through in order to abuse. He identified four stages:
Sexual motivation (wanting to abuse)
Overcoming internal inhibitions against acting on that motivation
Overcoming external impediments to committing sexual abuse
Undermining or overcoming the child's natural resistance to the sexual abuse
Barriers Abusers Overcome In Order To Abuse is an information sheet and checklist detailing the stages abusers go through. It can be useful as a source of information, or for starting discussions on this topic with clients.
Finkelhor, D. (1984). Child sexual abuse. New York.
Finkelhor, D. (1984). The prevention of child sexual abuse: An overview of needs and problems. Siecus Report, 13(1), 1-5.
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